William and Harry didn't want to follow Diana's coffin

The brother of Diana, Princess of Wales, has claimed he was 'lied to' about the desire of William and Harry to walk behind their mother's coffin.

The Duke of Edinburgh, Prince William, Earl Spencer, Prince Harry and the Prince of Wales walking behind the coffin of Diana, Princess of Wales during her funeral procession to Westminster Abbey. Picture: Tony Harris/PA Wire

Earl Spencer said he raised objections with royal officials before being told her sons wanted to do it, adding he later realised this was not the case.

He also described the feeling of walking behind Diana’s coffin in the funeral cortege as the “most horrifying half hour of my life”, acknowledging he still has nightmares about the “harrowing” event from 20 years ago.

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But the Earl said he believed the experience was a “million times worse” for Diana’s sons.

William, now the Duke of Cambridge, was 15 and Prince Harry 12 when their mother was killed in a car crash in Paris on 31 August 1997.

A huge outpouring of grief followed her death, which shocked the world. Earl Spencer paid tribute to his sister at Westminster Abbey in 1997, in a highly personal speech which highlighted her difficulties with the media and the royal family.

He promised to care for William and Harry, with his reference to the Spencers as Diana’s “blood family” seen as deeply wounding to the Windsors.

The Earl said he understood the Queen believed he had “every right to say whatever he felt” and recalled keeping the speech secret to prevent anyone else having a say in it.

As the 20th anniversary of Diana’s death nears, Earl Spencer told BBC Radio 4’s Today programme it was a “very bizarre and cruel thing” for Diana’s two sons to be asked to walk behind her body.

Earl Spencer said his sister would not have wanted it and told officials of his objection, adding: “Eventually I was lied to and told they wanted to do it, which of course they didn’t but I didn’t realise that.”
It was the feeling of walking behind Diana’s coffin which Earl Spencer described as the “worst part of the day by a considerable margin”.

He said: “The feeling, the sort of absolute crashing tidal wave of grief coming at you as you went down this sort of tunnel of deep emotion, it was really harrowing and I still have nightmares about it now.

“So there was the inner turmoil of thinking, ‘My God this is ghastly’, but then the point of thinking these two boys are doing this and it must be a million times worse for them.

“It was truly horrifying, actually.

“We would walk a hundred yards and hear people sobbing and then walk round a corner and somebody wailing and shouting out messages of love to Diana or William and Harry, and it was a very, very tricky time.”