I found out my fiancé cheated and went ahead with £35k wedding without a groom - I sang empowerment anthems

Lindsay Slater had a £35k wedding without a groom after her fiancé and partner of 12 years cheated on her - watch footage of Lindsay’s "celebration of freedom" where she wore her £1.2k wedding gown and sang empowerment anthems.

A bride who found out her fiancé had cheated on her went ahead with the £35,000 wedding - without a groom.

Lindsay Slater, 31, says she discovered her fiancé and partner of 12 years, 36, had slept with someone else.

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Lindsay says she confronted him and he left the family home and distraught Lindsay cancelled their upcoming ceremony. But she decided to turn the rest of their big day into a party - as a "celebration of freedom".

Lindsay Slater on her would-be wedding day which she turned into a "celebration of freedom" after her fiancé cheated.Lindsay Slater on her would-be wedding day which she turned into a "celebration of freedom" after her fiancé cheated.
Lindsay Slater on her would-be wedding day which she turned into a "celebration of freedom" after her fiancé cheated. | Lindsay Slater

Lindsay’s friend, Rachel, stayed with her overnight on August 16. The pair got their hair and make-up done together the next morning and drove themselves to the wedding venue - with Lindsay in her £1,200 Charlotte Elizabeth Bridal gown and Beth in her maid-of-honour dress.

Around 60 to 70 guests came to the reception - which consisted of a sit down meal, speeches, and a party with a DJ and bongo players. Lindsay even jetted off on her honeymoon on August 20 - spending seven days at a resort in Crete, Greece, with her friend Melissa.

While she isn't ready to move on just yet, Lindsay, a solicitor from Mansfield in Nottingham, says her solo wedding made her feel "strong and empowered".

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She said: ''I chose to spend the day with close friends and family - rather than sit at home, crying.

“Beth was maid-of-honour - she put a sign out saying ‘and she lived happily ever after…’ My uncle made me a Victoria sponge cake, with green icing and roses. The DJ played non-stop empowerment anthems. We had ‘It’s Not Right, but it’s OK’ by Whitney Houston, and ‘Survivor’ by Destiny’s Child.

“I thanked all my family and friends for being there - I said I didn’t know how I was going to survive this ordeal. But looking out at all those supportive faces, I felt a bit better.”

Lindsay's ex-partner declined to comment but admitted he had been unfaithful.

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