Nearly a quarter of adults prefer to stay tight-lipped about issues such as their mental health, disabilities, or body weight
A study of 1,016 adults found 36 per cent prefer not to confide in others over anything they consider to be ‘personal’, or ‘embarrassing’ (28 per cent).
Other taboo topics kept off the agenda are menstruation, old-age, personal hygiene and menopause.
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Hide AdThis is despite celebrities including Lady Gaga, Davina McCall and James Argent, opening up about issues such as mental health, menopause and obesity.
When quizzed about their secrecy, one in 10 claim to have confided in someone in the past and been hurt by their response.
While 23 per cent are concerned about being judged and 18 per cent were brought up to keep personal matters to themselves.
A fifth worry others can’t keep secrets, 16 per cent fear being made fun of and 15 per cent want to be considered as ‘normal’.
The figures were revealed as part of an international study by hygiene and health company Essity.
Making space for open and honest conversation
A spokesman said: “The sad reality is that although we live in a society where the majority of people try to encourage openness and acceptance, there is still a long way to go in order to break down the barriers that prevent open and honest conversations.
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Hide Ad“Many people fear being treated differently, whether they have a mental or physical ailment.
“And unfortunately, there is still a lot of education needed.
"It can be so easy to judge others on something you don’t understand but encouraging people to talk, particularly with a healthcare professional, is the first positive step you can take.”
The study found Brits have been so embarrassed about their issues they have even missed days of school or work.
It emerged adults are most likely to take time off due to mental health - with one in four needing to take a break to look after their own well-being.
A further 12 per cent have chosen to skip school or work due to menstruation, one in 10 for skin issues such as eczema and six per cent have even avoided others due to their obesity.
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Hide AdFor those who have tried to talk to someone else, 45 per cent turned to a partner, while 30 per cent contacted mum.
Start adult education early surrounding 'taboo' subjects - such as menopause and menstruation
More than a third (36 per cent) would rather talk to a health professional than a friend (29 per cent), a sibling (15 per cent) - or even dear old dad (nine per cent).
After opening up, a quarter felt immediately relieved, while 23 per cent were less worried.
However, not everyone experienced feelings of positivity. Sadly, 14 per cent felt they were burdening others, 11 per cent felt embarrassed, while one in 20 were left feeling mortified.
To reduce the shame and reluctance of discussing health and hygiene topics such as menopause, incontinence and menstruation, adults believe education should start early.
More than half (55 per cent) think it starts with parents being open with their children, while 46 per cent think schools should create spaces for dialogue and training.
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Hide AdWhile 23 per cent think businesses should take responsibility for their staff through awareness, knowledge and support.
And 35 per cent said it is down to the government to provide more information campaigns, accessible to all.
The spokesman for Essity added: “It is important for brands like Bodyform and TENA to try and push the boundaries and normalise the conversation around periods and menstruation for many.
“But this research tells us that embarrassment is still a major issue and we need to keep working to ensure more people have the confidence to talk about their wellbeing without fear.”