The charity’s annual Good Childhood Report, which examines the state of children’s well-being in the UK, found that out of the 11,000 children surveyed one in six reported self-harming at 14.
Based on these figures, the Children’s Society estimates that nearly 110,000 children aged 14 may have self-harmed across the UK during the same 12-month period, including 76,000 girls and 33,000 boys.
One young person told the charity: “I felt like self-harming was what I wanted to do and had to do as there was nothing else I could do. I think there is help for young people but not the right kind of help.
“Feeling not pretty enough or good enough as other girls did contribute towards my self-harming, however, I don’t feel just being a girl is the reason as I think boys feel the same way too.”
Almost half of 14-year-olds who said they had been attracted to people of the same gender or both genders said they had self-harmed (46 per cent), analysis revealed.
Children’s Society chief executive Matthew Reed said: “It is deeply worrying that so many children are unhappy to the extent that they are self-harming.
“Worries about how they look are a big issue, especially for girls, but this report shows other factors such as how they feel about their sexuality and gender stereotypes may be linked to their unhappiness.”
Dr Max Davie, officer for health promotion for the Royal College of Paediatrics and Child Health, said: “Education around issues like appearance, gender stereotypes and sexuality is also desperately needed and should be included in the new relationships and sex education curriculum. This country’s mental health crisis is not going to go away overnight, but with appropriate action from government, there is hope that fewer children will have mental health worries and be happier with their life as a result.”
The Good Childhood Report draws on the Children’s Society’s annual survey of 10-to-17-year-old children and their parents from 2,000 socio-economically representative households in England, Scotland and Wales. The report also uses the Millennium Cohort Survey, which follows the lives of 11,144 children born in the UK in 2000-01.