Debbie Stevenson appeared for sentencing at Kirkcaldy Sheriff Court after admitting stealing the cash from her former employers.
The 37-year-old was blasted by the sheriff, who said he did not believe her tears were a sign of genuine remorse but prompted by fear of being sent to prison.
However, the judge decided the first time offender would instead have to carry out 300 hours of unpaid work.
The court heard how Stevenson, formerly of Cardenden, Fife, spent less than half the stolen cash on IVF treatment which was carried out during three trips to Greece in 2015.
But the deception continued even after she gave birth to twins later that year.
The court had received a letter alleging that Stevenson had been spending the cash on family holidays, a new car and home improvements.
But defence solicitor David Cranston said: “The lavish lifestyle referred to just wasn’t the case.
“They were around £2,000 a month better off with the money she embezzled and she paid her mother £1,300 a month to act as a nanny to the children.
“She did not landscape the garden of her rented property but had it relaid to tidy it up.
“She has left Scotland as she is so ashamed by her actions and has left a large family behind in Glenrothes.
“Her father has turned his back on her. She is a 37-year-old lady who has no previous convictions and who clearly had a decent moral code up until this point.”
Stevenson transferred money from The Pitreavie Group in Glenrothes, Fife, into two bank accounts under her control between August 2014 and January 2017.
In sentencing, Sheriff Gilchrist said: “You appear before me as a first time offender and the mother of young children which I must take into account.
“Quite how I’m supposed to deal with that when you committed the crime to have the children in the first place, I’m not entirely clear.”
Stevenson, who now lives in Hebburn, Tyne & Wear, was ordered to carry out 300 hours of unpaid work and given a restriction of liberty order for 12 months.