Dogs have long been known as humankind’s best friends, and the bond between dogs and their owners is nothing short of extraordinary.
Research by Canine Cottages shows that a dog’s heart rate increases by 46.2 per cent when being told “I love you”.
This backs up what dog lovers have always felt in their hearts—our canine companions truly do love us.
With Valentine’s Day approaching, to help dog owners better understand their furry friends’ expressions of love, Dr. Emma Scales-Theobald, Canine Behaviourist and resident dog expert at Canine Cottages, explains the gestures that mean “I love you” in dog language, from telling tail wags to heartfelt cuddles.
She explained: “Understanding your dog’s behaviour can deepen your bond and help you respond to their emotional needs. Knowing the difference between affection and stress signals ensures you’re tuned into their wellbeing”.
Here’s what to look out for.
5. Belly rubs
Dogs that roll onto their backs and expose their bellies are showing a high level of trust and affection. A wagging tail and relaxed posture typically mean they’re asking for a belly rub as a sign of love. However, if their ears are pinned back, tail tucked, or body tense, they may be showing submission or anxiety rather than seeking affection. Always read the entire body language for context. | Canva/Getty Images
6. Following you
A dog that loves you will want to be near you, often following you from room to room. This behaviour, sometimes called ‘Velcro dog syndrome’, is especially common in breeds with strong loyalty traits. It’s their way of saying “You’re my person, and I want to be where you are. | Canva/Getty Images
7. Sharing their toys
When dogs bring you their toys, they’re not just inviting you to play; they’re also sharing something valuable to them. This behaviour is a sign of trust and affection, particularly in breeds like Labradors or Golden Retrievers. Celebrate this gesture by engaging in play or praising them for their generosity. | Canva/Getty Images
8. Asking you to play
The ‘play bow’—lowered front end, raised hindquarters, wagging tail—is a universal invitation to have fun. When a dog does this, they’re expressing excitement and joy in your presence. Responding with play strengthens your bond and keeps your dog mentally and physically stimulated. | Canva/Getty Images