THE family of one of Britain’s oldest and longest-serving poppy sellers has defended charities that persistently contacted her and said they bear no responsibility for her death.
Olive Cooke, 92, was found dead by police in the Avon Gorge near the Clifton Suspension Bridge on 6 May, two days before the anniversary of VE Day. Mrs Cooke, from Bristol, dedicated 76 years of her life raising money for the Royal British Legion and is believed to have sold about 30,000 poppies.
She also supported numerous charities and at one point received 267 charity letters in one month, leading to suggestions that the hounding for money pushed her to take her own life.
But her family said that while they were intrusive and a nuisance, the charities were not to blame for her death.
Her granddaughter Jessica Dunne said: “Nan would have wanted the work of charities to be promoted. It brought her great comfort to know she could help make a difference in a person’s life by donating to charities and by her own charity work. She believed that charities are the backbone to our communities, that they can be the scaffolding for us in our times of crisis. She believed that charities give us support, hope and courage when we need it the most.
“I think that the amount of contact from charities was starting to escalate and get slightly out of control, and the phone calls were beginning to get intrusive, but there is no blame or suggestion that this was a reason for her death.
Nan would have wanted the work of charities to be promoted. It brought her great comfort to know she could help make a difference in a person’s life by donating to charities and by her own charity workJessica Dunne
“She might have had up to 27 direct debits at one point and been a bit exhausted by all the letters, but she had decided which charities she wanted to give to.
“She had her favourites and was not bumbling along and letting them grow and grow. She was very on the ball with money and gave to charities because she wanted to and could afford to – it was a passion.”
Miss Dunne, 37, a nurse from Hastings, said her grandmother left the family “a beautiful note” explaining the reasons for her death, which were connected to depression and issues around being elderly, and made no mention of charities.
The fundraising methods were simply “a small part within a complex situation”.
She said: “Nan was not a victim. She did suffer with depression, but on the whole she was a happy soul. She was a brave and courageous woman throughout life, and courageous when deciding to end her life.
“The reasons were mainly to do with health issues and lack of sleep, nothing to do with the charities. There was a headline that upset me, that she was ‘Killed by kindness’ – it was not that at all.”
Mrs Cooke, a grandmother of four with two great-grandchildren, began selling poppies in 1938 aged 16, having been inspired by her father who set up a Royal British Legion branch in Bedminster.
She devoted herself fully to the charity after husband Leslie Hussey-Yeo, a sailor in the Royal Navy, was killed in Italy in 1943, leaving her a war widow at the age of 21.
She was a familiar face in Bristol and stood outside the city’s cathedral every year in the lead-up to Remembrance Day.